Welcome Followers

I think it's vital to welcome people to the page. I'm looking more for a way to express myself and hopefully share with people some of the things in everyday life that people may not necessarily talk about. In my house Nothing is talked about... and well.. if it is... it tends to be more shouted about at random and then suddenly dropped. I'm living amongst problems and have been told i'm the rock in the house. sometimes that's very tough. Being there for my family gives me a great feeling, but sometimes i have to ask "Who's there for me?"

I don't feel like my family actually know me. they sure dont listen to me. They hear what i say, but don't listen. Hence the Name on my blog.

It is with this thought that i decide to share with any follower dedicated enough to read my ramblings the very things that happen in my house and my life. i shall share my true feelings and thoughts... they may not always be nice, but they will be realistic, and i'm sure there will be others who can relate to what i experience too.



I'm hoping that here is a place i can get listened to.
I also have a list of some music that makes me feel good and that i feel can be good for others too if they really connect with the lyrics. I find that music has been what saved me after my mother died. It still does to this day. I listen to music everyday and am constantly looking up and finding new stuff. Just love it... Keeps me going!

I will appreciate any thought or comments. maybe even questions about my experiences as i post. Hence The e-mail address below. Thank You. Enjoy.

Meg.

(meghrd@gmail.com)











A Little Bit About Myself

I Live, for the moment with my Family, which consists of My Dad, My two brothers and of course... Me! Life hasn't been easy on me and though a I've been through a lot and often struggle i think i remain optimistic most of the time though i feel lost at times and i tend to take on the role of my Mother (Who died when i was nine)which leads the rest of my family to have unrealistic expectations of me. I'm an emotional person. I take everything to heart, which is probably why Life can seem tough at times. I do believe however that i have good values, and that i can maybe pass on some wisdom to those who struggle too. Many of my friends seek advice from me. I'm a problem & a problem fixer... Ah!... a problem fixing problem! I apparently give great advice.. i just dont tend to use it myself. Im Studying Social Care at the minute and am fascinated by this area of work, and though it was something i hadnt actually considered, i feel like it found me!

Sunday, May 9, 2010

First Blog!

I've always found writing about things in my life helps me to rationalise and make sense of it all. Maybe it also helps me deal with the bad things. I've discovered over the last year that whilst it helps, it may not be enough. Communication is a big problem these days. My home being one place that the word communication is foriegn and almost unrecognisable. In my discoveries over the last year, it happens i've stopped writing in my diary. This is a huge thing for me as it was a regular occurence in my ever changing life. The reason for this change? Someone who LISTENS. Truly. I no longer feel the need to write on paper and hide it away. I have found somone, now part of my life, that i can share every thought and feeling with. This, they say, overwhelms them. I don't think many people would have the kind of relationship i've found. An unconditional sharing relationship. We Talk, Joke, Laugh and share. We've never met and yet fully appreciate eachother. I can tell this person everything, openly and honestly. Everything. being the type that would usually struggle to tell a person anything, it's truly beneficial for me... and in a way... i think i've been saved... there was a build up inside me and this person coming into my life has now unburdened me in that i can share with them instead of holding everything inside. If everyone communicated the way this person and i do... What a place this world would be! Something i can only dream! Everyone should have this.


Meg.

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